Mom backlashes after getting teen’s hair cut online
A mother’s discipline of her teenage daughter is unpopular on social media—and she may be less concerned. But the backlash against her Very powerful method that the mother then hired the teenager in a “I’m not a victim” videos and publish a few explanatory clips. All of that only fueled accusations of abuse and jealousy.
It all starts with a TikTok videos about the girl’s punishment – a big piece. The original footage shows the mother on camera explaining that her baby “thinking that being beautiful is more important than being educated, being a follower is more important than being a leader.”
Afterward, mother against the camera while explaining that she “Not that parents like to use physical discipline.”
At the time, the teenager was wearing a large box-shaped braid with red roots. She told her daughter, “Come here, you will learn today,” and proceeds to yank the girl with the front braid. The mother cut the braids off, leaving little fragments of the teenager natural hair. When teenagers protest against a “mom,” the woman went.
“Don’t my mother, no. You’ve got your warning, you’ve got your chance. I told you, I told you not to break my rules. I told you that being cute means nothing if you are not educated. I told you to stop disobeying me, I told you to listen and do what you have to do, I told you to study well, I told you to do your day job,” the mother said. “And you still haven’t done any of that, and you think today you’re disobeying me, and I’m not coming to cut this hair. Sadly, you are greatly mistaken because you think being beautiful is much better than being educated or listening to your mother.”
As she spoke, the adults cut the teen’s braids one by one. Meanwhile, the teenager stood there, surreptitiously looking at the camera. Finally, when the mother finished eating the large piece of spoiled meat, she pushed the boy’s head toward the camera. She speaks, “yes, this is what happens when you don’t listen to your mother.”
At some point, we need to talk about the dangers of narcissistic jealous mothers: pic.twitter.com/94JTPt9Wyg
— Bl💞ck B@rbies (@Its_The_Barbies) December 10, 2022
Mom with daughter explains why she’s ‘not a victim’ then gives her a wig
Almost immediately, people online began to weigh in on the mother’s decision. While some agreed with her method, others criticized it. Neither of these causes the woman to reconsider her method of discipline. Instead, she shot another video with her daughter on the same day of the massive guillotine.
In the sequel, the mother is partially hidden from the camera while her daughter and her chopped meat are in full view. She started by asking her daughter questions, including whether she felt hurt or abused. With a straight face and calm tone, the boy replied “are not” to each question. Then the mother asked if the big piece was a “better form of discipline” than physical discipline, and the teen replied, “Yes.”
Then the mother reminds the boy that she loves her and takes the punishment to “do [the teen] a better person.” She then made a list of how many times, trying to show that she was supposed to be having a problem with the teen.
The woman asked: “I don’t embarrass you, you embarrass yourself right.
And the videos don’t stop there, she has shared more footage to question her daughter, explain their relationship and, finally, give her daughter a long wig. The daughter appeared happy to try on a wig and agreed with her mother’s question.
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Woman justifies why she cut her daughter’s hair
The videos started pulling in last week. About two days ago, the mother gave another set of updates. This time, she criticized their comments, especially the women in the prostitution industry.
“If you’re a prostitute, if you’re a stripper, if you’re an OnlyFans girl or TikToking, Instagram ‘makes it fun’, you’ll never be able to give me parenting advice. because your parents screwed up a long time ago. time ago,” said the mother.
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In another video, she claims she can be “less concerned” about comments, likes, and views. She claims that the guillotine threat has been going on for a year but her daughter doesn’t believe her and she doesn’t believe herself. So in the end, she said, she kept her promise. She also denied allegations that she felt jealous of her teenage daughter.
“After exhausting so many different forms of discipline, writing lines, grounding and putting away, doing all that, it didn’t matter,” the mother said. “When I asked her not to access the apps, she created a new app and continued her bad behavior, and did whatever she wanted. I’m not going to sit here and explain to you what really happened because I’m not here to embarrass my daughter. I am here to teach my daughter.”
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Reaction on social media about mother cutting daughter’s hair
Meanwhile, innanet doesn’t seem to think the mother is teaching her daughter much – if at all. Keep scrolling to see the conversation surrounding the mother’s actions:
The child cares about his appearance—> his mother roughly cuts his hair (implying that she is removing a part of her beauty) as punishment—> the child now sees that not pretty is a punishment, bad ergo.
– (@IfYouSeekKay) December 11, 2022
Parents cutting their child’s hair because prioritizing looks over education is not just emotional abuse, it’s physical abuse. Is her hair not part of her?
Also…. She taught her not to prioritize looks over education by… prioritizing changing looks?
– Supernova Mom (@SupernovaMomma) December 11, 2022
When mothers cut their daughters’ hair as a form of “punishment,” it is never teaching a lesson. It’s abuse.. Women understand the importance of hair for other women and especially little girls. It’s about bringing down their daughter and making their daughter feel lower.
— Bella Goth (@LilSexyCommie) December 12, 2022
Say, I’m not arguing with you about abuse. Or I lift your ass and cut your hair to test your theory. Do a science experiment and see if you feel abused after I finish
– Supernova Mom (@SupernovaMomma) December 11, 2022
Your mom being a bully is the worst thing anyone has ever experienced, worse for a girl.
Her anger at cutting those curls was due to jealousy and nothing else, the girl was still prettier than her even with her hair cut off. https://t.co/3TmqqT9Jma– Uncle Ras Dartte’ (@Dartte_45) December 12, 2022
A mom on tiktok cuts her Daughter’s HAIR, and says it’s because she puts beauty above all… ALL USING FILTERS!???
Your new generation mothers are something different from men. Emotional abuse of children is just as bad as physical abuse. She needs to go to the COLD HOUSE!
– Soph ✨🇯🇲 (@Signedbysophiee) December 11, 2022
This tiktok mom cut her daughter’s hair, posted the video, and after receiving the hate she wanted to turn off the comments and continue to poke fun at her daughter by making videos that read like ” They act like you’re hurt, they act like you’re the victim.” She is!
– Fate (@SUNNYYY_D) December 10, 2022
Also came here to say this…
My mother had a similar experience growing up; getting a haircut as punishment & this is one of the worst things a mother can do to harm their daughter. I want to snatch my mom’s necklace and strangle her because of this video https://t.co/yrGrdwEd1E pic.twitter.com/ozk3crsFuq
— ✨🌞 Jennicka 🌑✨ (@jennicka_bacon) December 12, 2022