Ashley Judd has revealed she sat down with the man who raped her to have a ‘conversation that restores justice.’
The actress, 54, was sexually assaulted in 1999 and, a few years later, ‘tried to find’ her attacker, who ‘appeared very easily’ so they could meet.
Speaking on the Healing with David Kessler podcast, Ashley said: ‘To make a long story short, we ended up with rocking chairs sitting by a creek together. And I said, ‘I’d love to hear the story you’ve been telling all these years. “
‘Healed from grief’: Ashley Judd reveals she sat down with the man who raped her to have a ‘restoring justice conversation’ (pictured in 2019 at the Women of the World summit) gender)
‘And we had a restorative justice conversation about that. I wanted to share that story because there are ways to heal pain and it’s important to remind the listener that I don’t need anything from him,’ she said.
‘It was just gravy that he made amends and expressed his deep regret, because healing from grief is an inside job.’
Podcast host David explains that people ‘may not realize’ that grief applies to the consequences of being assaulted. He added: ‘You lose your chastity.’
Ashley agrees: ‘One person is insecure. I lost my sense of trust. ‘
The A Time To Kill actress called her rape ‘crazy’ because she ‘knows better’ as an ’empowered feminist’ with ‘boundaries’.
Assault: The actress, 54, was sexually assaulted in 1999 and, a few years later, ‘tried to find’ her attacker, who ’emerged very easily’ so they could meet (pictured (pictured) 1999)
She said: ‘I’ve been very clear, my boundaries are still intact. I have been a mature, empowered feminist.
‘And what can happen in these circumstances is unconscionable, unforeseeable, yet I have had a process of restoring justice with this person in the context of my soul being exhausted today. how.’
The actress wanted to emphasize that she didn’t need her rapist’s ‘cooperation’ when he agreed to have a meeting, or let him ‘make amends’ or ‘do anything else for me to have a relationship’. independent program. from previous asymmetries of power. ‘
She added: ‘Because I’ve had the opportunity to do my trauma work, do my grief work, do my healing work, to have all these changes in my consciousness. herself and bond in this female alliance with other survivors.’
Speaking in 2019, Ashley explained that she was ‘a three-time rape survivor’, and recalled while campaigning for abortion rights how an assault resulted in a pregnancy that she it ended.
Recovery: Speaking on the Healing with David Kessler podcast, Ashley said: ‘To make a long story short, we ended up with rocking chairs sitting by a creek together. And I said, ‘I’d love to hear the story you’ve brought with you all these years’ (pictured in March 2018)
Speaking at the Women’s World conference in a panel moderated by Katie Couric on the current state of feminism, Ashley said that if she made the decision to keep the baby, the father would be given custody by the state. child.
“What I want to talk about is my personal experience with abortion because as everyone knows – and I am very open about it – I am a triple rape survivor,” says Judd. Judd said.
‘And one of the times when I was raped conceived, and I am so grateful that I was able to have a safe and legal abortion because that rapist, who is Kentuck, me and lives in Tennessee, had the right to do so. father in Kentucky.
She explained that she would eventually be forced to ‘co-parent with a rapist’ under the applicable laws of those states.
Speaking: Speaking in 2019 at the Women’s World summit, Ashley explained she was a ‘three-time rape survivor’ and recalled how one assault resulted in a pregnancy which she terminated (Judd speaks alongside author (LR) Rebecca Traister, Brittney Cooper, Sarah McBride and moderator Katie Couric in Feminism: Battlefield Report)
“So having access to safe abortion is very important to me personally, and as I said earlier, you know, democracy starts with the skin,” explains Judd.
‘We don’t have to adjust what we choose to do with our insides.’
At the time, it wasn’t clear whether the rape resulted in a conviction, which could have left the attacker with no custody or visitation rights in both Kentucky and Tennessee, according to the National Conference of Laws. State law.
Judd has become a force in the women’s rights movement over the past few years, with the actress being the first to speak out against Harvey Weinstein years before other women made their stories public.
She first wrote a piece for Variety in 2015 without naming Weinstein, then gave an overview of her experience to The New York Times before sitting down to tell all about his alleged conduct. boss.
Healing: The actress wanted to emphasize that she didn’t need her rapist’s ‘cooperation’ when he agreed to have a meeting or let him ‘make amends’ (pictured in May 2022)
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